Teens who drink are more likely to participate in dangerous sexual behavior for a variety of reasons. Help them understand the risks.
Alcohol use and sexual behavior are a common but perilous combination for teens. The risks are especially pronounced for young people, who have limited experience with alcohol coupled with limited social or sexual experience and raging hormones. Worse, they may be unaware of the effect alcohol has on their perceptions and decision-making.
Review with your kids the following risks so they understand how alcohol use can impact sexual behavior. Make sure they know that these risks apply equally to guys and girls.
Alcohol Impairs Communication Skills
They may be limited in their ability to clearly communicate their wishes to their partner.
They may be limited in their ability to understand what their partner is trying to communicate to them. They may misinterpret words, body language, and intentions.
Alcohol Use Affects Emotional State
Teens' emotions may be heightened, causing situations to get out of hand quickly.
Teens may become aggressive or violent, and force someone to do something they don’t want to do.
Alcohol Use Impairs Judgment and Decision Making Skills
Teens' inhibitions may be lowered, which can lead them to do things they otherwise wouldn’t do and may regret later.
Teens may be more likely to have unplanned, unprotected sex, increasing their risk of pregnancy as well as exposure to sexually transmitted diseases. This is because teens who are drinking while experimenting with sexual activity may not be thinking clearly about the possible consequences.
Impaired judgment can lead teens to get into dangerous or risky situations. For example, they might go off somewhere private with someone they don’t know well, or they may get into a car with someone who is too impaired to drive. They may be more likely to “go along” with what others are doing than they would if you were sober.
Alcohol Use Increases Vulnerability
Teens may be less likely to be able to protect themselves against sexual assault, which is any type of sexual activity that they don’t agree to. In addition, if they pass out from drinking too much, they are at increased risk because they are completely vulnerable.
Teens are at increased risk for unknowingly consuming what is known as a date rape drug. These are odorless, colorless chemicals (GHB, rohypnol, and ketamine) that can be slipped into a teen’s drink without their knowledge. The effects? They include loss of memory, loss of muscle control, problems talking or moving, confusion, distorted perception, and dream-like feelings. Consuming these drugs puts kids at risk of being overpowered and forced do things they don’t want to do.
These very real risks are never mentioned in ads for alcohol, but they do exist. Make sure your kids are aware of these risks, so they can make smart decisions about alcohol use.
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Teens do some things that are very inappropriate as a 17 year old and i see
girls younger than me drinking and having sexual intercourse its just wow i
cant even decribe what i think of all of it. There are girl 15 and 16 that
are pregnant. I wonder what there parents think. My parents know where i am
24/7 i call them all the time to check in those are true parents being
underage and drinking i think is wrong. I have drank but its not all that
for my age. My parents knew about it but i was in a safe enviroment with my
boyfriend and he is very protective and didn't let anyone around me or out
of his sight. Although i have done that i wont touch a drink until i am 21
years old because what if my boyfriend wasn't there and i was sexually
abused i would have never known i would have thought it was him. So that
was luck the first time the second time i might not be so lucky.
Oct 22, 2009 2:05 PM
Guest :
Lower the drinking age and we wouldn't have these problems. Drinking is the
forbidden fruit for teenagers, and when someone under the drinking age has
the opportunity, they tend to indulge. If we were to lower the drinking
age, drinking wouldn't be that big of a deal. Therefore parties where one
could be sexually assaulted don't seem that fun. It is up to the parents
and the schools to teach proper drinking habits, but like anything it takes
experience to know when enough's enough. Unfortunately Uncle Sam disagrees